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TURNABOUT’S FAIR PLAY Is Finished and Turned In!!!!

Monday, May 16, 2011

Jamie, here, dropping by really quickly to say that Kaye finished writing Turnabout’s Fair Play around 1 a.m. and e-mailed it to her publisher a little before 2:00. Yes, there should have been a Writer’s Window post today, but, unfortunately, Flannery and I kept Kaye so tied up writing our story, she didn’t even have time to check her calendar or remind the writer who was supposed to be featured to send in the materials. So, you’ll just have to put up with me for one more day. But Flannery and I have agreed . . . no public arguing today.

And Kaye is celebrating in her favorite way—she’s sleeping. I’m sure she’ll want to hear from you, but don’t be surprised if she doesn’t answer right away.

Who Said Flannery Gets to Have All the Fun?

Friday, May 13, 2011

Is anyone else tired of Flannery picking out just writing related posts to share?

I guess I should officially introduce myself. I’m Jamie O’Connor, the handsome and charming hero of Kaye Dacus’s novel Turnabout’s Fair Play.

I’m going to be nice and not even respond to what Flannery posted about me last Saturday—except to say that she should have had a little more faith in Kaye and her ability to bring people together. And don’t even get me started on Flannery labeling the photo of me that she uploaded on that post “Jamie the Dork.” There are some things I could share with you about Flannery—

What’s that? Oh, all right, I promised I’d be nice.

Anyway, I know that Kaye likes for her Friday posts to be about fun stuff, so since Flannery’s been dragging you down all week with all this editor-talk about writing and stuff, I thought I’d share some of my favorite fun posts that Kaye’s done over the years, just to liven things up a bit.

Fun Friday–Favorite Bad Guys
Fun Friday–Underappreciated Characters
Fun Friday–Favorite Medieval Movies
Fun Friday–Pep Talks
Fun Friday–Why Men Are Never Depressed (so true!)
Fun Friday–Favorite Movie Scores
Fun Friday–Favorite SciFi Movies/TV Series
Fun Friday–Favorite Fantasy Series/Movies
Fun Friday–Favorite War Movies
Fun Friday–A Battlestar Galactica Top 5 List
Fun Friday–Five Favorite Star Trek Episodes
Fun Friday–Favorite Movie Pirates
Fun Friday–A Robin Hood Favorites List

Obviously, Kaye has great taste in movies and TV shows, but that’s most evident in her posts she’s written about what was also one of my favorite TV shows, LOST:
LOST–This Writer’s Perspective
Fun Friday: Top Five Favorite LOST Episodes
Fun Friday: Best #LOST Death Scenes
Fun Friday Post 2: #LOST Questions
LOST–The Unanswered Questions

I do have to say, though, that I’m very disappointed that she hasn’t written anything about my absolute, all-time favorite TV show to date, Hawaii Five-0. Love that show. Especially Steve McGarrett. He’s so charismatic and has fantastic leadership skills. I’d think every guy out there would want to aspire to be just like him. 😉

So there you have it . . . some of my favorite highlights from Kaye’s blog over the years.

Hmmm . . . looking back at some of those movie posts, there seems to be a recurring theme that also shows up in the book. I wonder if she did that on purpose or if it just happened. Anyway, I know Kaye is exhausted and working as hard as she can to get the book finished or else she’d have had something new and fun for you here today.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, there’s something I need to go ask Flannery.

What? You thought I meant . . .

Oh, that question. I don’t think we’re quite there yet.

Flannery’s Favorites–Day 3

Thursday, May 12, 2011

So have you discovered anything from Kaye’s blog you hadn’t seen before? Kaye did an impressive amount of research for her writing series—though I understand that much of it came from seminars she took and books she read while in graduate school.

Hi, it’s Flannery McNeill back with you again today to review a couple more of Kaye’s writing teaching series. But before we get to that, I have a confession to make. Back on Saturday, I posted a little rant about Jamie O’Connor. I wondered about Kaye’s sanity in thinking that she was ever going to get me to see Jamie O’Connor as anything but an arrogant, condescending irritant. But . . . she made us sit down and talk—and forced us to lower some of our defenses—and I have to admit I’m finding my initial impression of Jamie changing. Sure, he still gets on my nerves from time to time, but I’m starting to see some potential. I’m still waiting to see exactly how Kaye plans to pull this off, especially since I now have to worry about Big Daddy and his crush on Jamie’s grandmother, Maureen. But I have confidence she’ll figure out happy endings for all of us.

So, back to Kaye’s writing series . . . first, I’d like to highlight a few posts Kaye did about query letters and proposals—first on the right way to do it:
Beyond the First Draft—The Query Letter
Beyond the First Draft–Preparing the Perfect Proposal

and now, here’s how not to do it:
What NOT to Write: The Query Letter
What Not to Write–The Submission

A couple of things that I (and other editors I know) look for when going through the slush pile are setting and dialogue:

Setting
Stir Up Your Setting
Stir Up Your Setting – Part 1: World Building
SUYS – World Building…A Step Further
Stir Up Your Setting – Part 2: Using All Five Senses
Stir Up Your Setting–REAL Fictional Settings
Favorite Settings on Film
Stir Up Your Setting–Making Setting a Character
Stir Up Your Setting–Finding a Happy Medium

“Say What?” (Dialogue)
Say What?
“Say What?” How Do You Say Hello?
“Say What?”–Uh, Um, Well, So, Wow, Great, Yeah, Really?
“Say What?”–Transcribed Dialogue Assignment
“Say What?”–Where Do I Put the Quotation Marks?
“Say What?”–A Delicate Balancing Act
“Say What?”–What Direction Is Your Dialogue Going?
“Say What?”–Dialogue Writing Assignment
Fun Friday–Favorite Movies/TV for Dialogue
“Say What?”–Is It Dialogue-Worthy?
“Say what?” she intoned incredulously.
“Say What?”–Subtexting
“Say What?”–Character Quirks & Non-Verbal Dialogue

Flannery’s Favorites–Day 2

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Have you looked at the word-count meter yet? Isn’t Kaye doing well? There may be hope for Jamie and me yet!

Flannery McNeill back with you again today to bring you more of my favorite posts from Kaye’s archives. Let’s go back a little ways today to one of the first series Kaye did—and a topic that’s always of great interest: Character Casting!

Be Your Own Casting Director–Character Casting.
Be Your Own Casting Director: Introduction
Be Your Own Casting Director: Real World Template Exercise
BYOCD: Creating a Casting Book
BYOCD: Collecting Images
BYOCD: Putting RWTs to Work for You
BYOCD: Guided Brainstorming with RWTs

And here’s a series I quote from liberally whenever I’m trying to explain to a new writer the difference between showing and telling:

Showing vs. Telling
Showing vs. Telling—An Introduction
Showing vs. Telling—The First Date
Showing vs. Telling—Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
Showing vs. Telling—In the Eye of the Beholder
Showing vs. Telling—Feeeeeeeeeelings . . .
Showing vs. Telling—Do You See What I See?
Showing vs. Telling—Do You Smell What I Taste?
Showing vs. Telling—The Sixth Sense
Showing vs. Telling—Puppets, Cartoon Characters, or Live Action?
Showing vs. Telling—When to TELL

Flannery’s Favorites–Day 1

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Hi, Flannery McNeill here again, as promised, to share some of my favorite posts from Kaye’s blog with you. Let’s start with two of her more recent writing series:

Top Ten Writing Tips
Writing Tip #1: FINISH YOUR FIRST DRAFT
Writing Tip #2: I Need Distance
Writing Tip #3: Start something new
Writing Tip #4: Reading Ratio 5:1
Writing Tip #5: Story trumps craft
Writing Tip #6: Don’t think, just write
Writing Tip #7: I Should Probably Write That Down
Writing Tip #8: It’s Okay If What You Write Stinks
Writing Tip #9: Write your passion—but keep an eye on the market
Writing Tip #10: When You Need a Kick in the Pants

Debunking Writing Myths
Debunking Writing Myths: Blogging & Social Media
Debunking Writing Myths: “Write What You Know”
Debunking Writing Myths: “Omniscient POV Is Bad”
Debunking Writing Myths: “First Person POV is the easiest to write.”
Debunking Writing Myths: “Eliminate all WASes and HADs from Your Manuscript”
Debunking Writing Myths: “Eliminate ALL Adverbs”
Debunking Writing Myths: “Read, Read, Read”
Debunking Writing Myths: Always/Never Use “Said” Dialogue Tags
Debunking Writing Myths: The Opening Salvo
Debunking Writing Myths–“Never use fragments, one-word sentences, or one-line paragraphs.”
Debunking Writing Myths: “Showing Is Always Better than Telling”

Now, Kaye hasn’t been publicizing it much, mostly because she’s been focusing on telling you about Caylor’s book, The Art of Romance, but Kaye has another book to add to her list of publications:


And can I just tell you as an editor how excited I am about this book? It’s one of the only ones I’ve seen which focuses completely on writing genre fiction, and was put out by graduates and teachers of Seton Hill University’s Writing Popular Fiction master’s degree program. The book covers all aspects of genre-fiction writing—but more than just craft, it also covers writing community (including Kaye’s article on critiquing) and the publishing industry. This is one writing craft book you definitely want on your shelf! Here’s just a flavor of the critical response it’s received:


Many Genres, One Craft is a brilliant and insightful must-have book for any writer, from newbie to working pro. Highly recommended!” —Jonathan Maberry, New York Times bestselling author of The King of Plagues and Patient Zero

“Finally! A book on writing category fiction, presented by those who do it every day. Choose a genre and jump right in.” —Mike Resnick, Nebula and Hugo Award–winning author

Many Genres has everything you need to write and sell the book of your dreams. It is jam-packed with practical information, clear examples and brilliant insights, all delivered with clarity and wit. Skip the writers’ conference and read this gem from the masters of genre fiction!” —Suzanne Forster, New York Times bestselling author

“Speaking from experience, I can tell you there isn’t a muse and if there is, she’s already dating someone else.’ If there isn’t a muse, as you’ll read in this invaluable book for writers, Many Genres, One Craft is surely the next best thing. No matter what you want to learn—from choosing the point of view for a scene, from getting the most out of a critique group to fine-tuning your final draft, from approaching a literary agent to promoting your published book in print or electronically or both—it’s all there. The contributors know their stuff, and what they’re teaching applies to writing at any age. Many Genres, One Craft covers all the bases superbly, including issues I haven’t seen addressed anywhere else in today’s rapidly shifting publishing landscape.” —Renni Browne, co-author of Self-Editing for Fiction Writers

So be sure to order your copy today!

Writer’s Window: Karen Witemeyer

Monday, May 9, 2011

Joining us today for Writer’s Window is historical romance author Karen Witemeyer.

One lucky commenter* will win a signed copy of Karen’s latest release, To Win Her Heart. Deadline for leaving a comment to enter the drawing is Friday. To enter the drawing, you must answer the question posed by Karen at the end of the interview. Only one comment per person will count toward the drawing. Please do not include your e-mail address in the body of your comment—just make sure it’s correct when you sign in to leave your comment. The winning name will be drawn next weekend and the winner will be notified via e-mail.

      *U.S. residents only, void where prohibited. If you win the drawing, you will be ineligible for the next three drawings, though hopefully you will still come back and join in the discussion.

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A blacksmith with a criminal past. A librarian with pacifist ideals. Do they have a fighting chance at finding love?

Having completed his sentence for the unintentional crime that derailed his youthful plans for fame and fortune, Levi Grant looks to start over in the town of Spencer, Texas. Spencer needs a blacksmith, a trade he learned at his father’s knee, and he needs a place where no one knows his past. But small towns leave little room for secrets. . . .

Eden Spencer has sworn off men, choosing instead to devote her time to the lending library she runs. When a mountain-sized stranger walks through her door and asks to borrow a book, she steels herself against the attraction he provokes. His halting speech and hesitant manner leave her doubting his intelligence. Yet as the mysteries of the town’s new blacksmith unfold, Eden discovers hidden depths in him that tempt her heart.

Levi’s renewed commitment to his faith leads Eden to believe she’s finally found a man of honor and integrity, a man worthy of her love. But when the truth about his prodigal past comes to light, can this tarnished hero find a way to win back the librarian’s affections?

Welcome, Karen!
What do you like best about being a writer?

    Definitely, the fan mail. There is nothing better than hearing that my story impacted a reader’s life. I’m amazed at what God can achieve through storytelling. And those notes of thanks are such an encouragement, often arriving when I’m feeling the most down and doubting my abilities. The Lord is surely working both sides of this system.

What do you like least about being a writer?

    I hate when I stare at the computer screen and my fingers freeze. Ideas hide. Characters quit talking to me. Or the perfect word eludes me despite all the thesauruses I’ve perused, and my brain refuses to take one more step into the story until that word has been found and employed. Grrr…as if battling laziness and distractions weren’t bad enough.

Pop, Soda, or Coke? What do you call it, and what’s your favorite variety?

    I’m a soda gal. In California where I grew up, I remember calling it Coke, but now that I’m in Texas, it’s always soda. I try not to drink it too often, but when I do, it’s Sprite. I stopped drinking colas years ago when I was pregnant with my first child and never reacquired the taste.

What’s your favorite dessert?

    Mmmm…There are so many. I’m an ice cream lover, Blue Bell chocolate chip being my favorite, but it’s hard to beat a streusel-topped blackberry cobbler. Maybe I’ll have to compromise and have that blackberry cobbler a la mode.

What’s the most fun/interesting/crazy/scary/unique hands-on research you’ve done for a book?

    In my first book, A Tailor-Made Bride, there is a scene where the characters attend a founder’s day picnic. I had such a great time researching all the games they would have played, that when it came time to host my launch party, I set up the same types of games for my visitors and their children. We did hoop rolling (with extremely large wooden quilt hoops), three-legged races, and my personal favorite, the game of graces. Graces is played with two people, usually girls. Each girl holds two throwing sticks. (I used dowels.) The first player dangles the ribbon-decorated hoop on the end of one stick then dips the second stick through the circle, making an X with the stick ends. When she pulls the sticks apart, the hoop flies toward her partner. The other player tries to catch the hoop on her sticks. We used this game at my daughter’s birthday party one year, too. It was a hit, even with the boys.

What’s your favorite movie from childhood?

    I loved all the Disney fairy tales as well as the adventure stories like Swiss Family Robinson. I’m still a huge Disney fan. I watched Tangled over the holidays with my kids and loved it as much as they did.

If you were to write a novel about what your life would have been like if you’d become what you wanted to be at eight years old, what kind of character would the story be about?

    The story would revolve around a schoolmarm. When I was a youngster, I couldn’t image much past my immediate experience. My mother didn’t work outside the home, so my understanding of the career options available to women was greatly limited. All I knew was that I liked math and loved to read. Surely that meant I should be a teacher.

What makes you happy?

    Hugs from my kids, snuggling with my husband, singing in the car, and getting to the happy ending of a good historical romance novel.

What makes you nervous?

    Events where mingling is required. I’m a full-blooded introvert, and though I can make myself be outgoing when the occasion calls for it, I dread gatherings where I don’t know anyone well and am expected to make small talk. Writing clever dialog is much easier than speaking it when on the spot.

What’s your biggest dream for the future?

    For my writing career, I’d love to win a RITA or a Christy or have a book hit the best seller list, but in truth, my biggest dream for the future is to see my children grow into godly men and women who love Jesus with all of their hearts and serve him faithfully throughout their lives.

Tell us about your newest release and what you’re working on now.

    To Win Her Heart pairs a blacksmith with a criminal past with an uppity librarian who holds lofty ideals. But attraction definitely sparks between these two opposites.

    This story plays on the question – what happens after the prodigal son returns? So many times, we focus on the wonderful homecoming the lost son received from his father, but have you ever asked what life was like for him after the celebration was over? How did he relate to his bitter older brother or the servants and townspeople who were only too aware of his past arrogance and wild living?

    In To Win Her Heart, I play on those very questions. My hero is a man recently released from prison who has returned to his faith roots and rededicated his life to the Lord. The heroine is a woman who has been disappointed by men in the past and has little tolerance of those who don’t meet her high standards. In an effort to make a clean start, Levi hides his past and Eden believes she has finally found a man of honor and integrity. But when his prodigal past comes to light, old hurts are exposed, and Eden must decide if she can give her heart to a knight with tarnished armor.

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    I’m currently working on my fourth historical romance for Bethany House. The working title is Short-Straw Bride. Four brothers draw straws to see who will marry the heroine in this twist on a marriage of convenience story. Here’s the tagline: All he’s ever cared about is his brothers and his land. But when a good deed goes awry, he’s stuck with a bride who endangers both.

    One fun tidbit about the brothers in this story – they are all named for heroes from the Alamo. Travis is the main character, the next oldest is Crockett, the kid brother is Neill (for the Alamo’s commander who missed being at the fight because of a family illness that called him away), and the third brother’s given name is Bowie, but he refuses to answer to anything except Jim. I don’t blame him. Poor guy. What we authors do to torture our characters.

Where can people find out more about you/connect with you online?

    I’d love to have you visit me at my website: www.karenwitemeyer.com. I host a monthly giveaway of historical Christian novels from a variety of well-known authors as well as post interesting tidbits about my characters and the research behind their stories.

    You can also find me on Facebook. Send me a message sometime. I’d be honored to chat with you.

Now it’s your turn to ask the question. What question do you want to ask the commenters to answer?

    Besides physical appearance, how would you describe your ideal historical romance hero?

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Karen Witemeyer is a deacon’s wife who believes the world needs more happily-ever-afters. To that end, she combines her love of bygone eras with her passion for helping women mature in Christ to craft historical romance novels that lift the spirit and nurture the soul.

Karen holds a master’s degree in Psychology from Abilene Christian University and is a member of ACFW, RWA, and her local writers’ guild. She’s an avid cross-stitcher, shower singer, and bakes a mean apple cobbler. Karen makes her home in Abilene, TX with her husband and three children.

I’m Taking Over Kaye’s Blog…

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Hi, my name is Flannery McNeill. You might recognize my name, either from meeting me in Love Remains or The Art of Romance or because Kaye has mentioned me from time to time when she’s talked about my book, Turnabout’s Fair Play.

Well, as you can see from the word-count meter over in the right-hand column, Kaye has a lot of work to do in the next week. So, as an editor myself who relies on authors turning their work in on time, I’ve suggested to Kaye that she let me take over her blog for the next week.

Kaye’s regularly scheduled Writer’s Window post, this week featuring historical-romance author Karen Witemeyer, will run as usual. But I’m hijacking her blog for the remainder of the week. Kaye’s got some great stuff archived here, and I figured that while she’s busy getting my book finished, I’d share some of that with you. So even though Kaye won’t be here, I hope you’ll still stop by and see some of the fantastic information this blog has to offer.

Oh, and be sure to pray for Kaye as she types her fingers to the nub to meet her deadline. She’s been struggling with a migraine that just won’t go away for the past few days, which is making it hard for her to concentrate. And since I’m a little impatient to see just how she’s going to make me fall in love with Jamie O’Connor—which, I’m telling you right now, isn’t looking promising from where I’m standing*—she needs all the prayer support she can get.

      *I mean, seriously, could this guy be any more irritating? Besides the fact that he called me “Fanny” the first time I met him—like I’ve never heard that before!—at that cookout at Bobby’s grandparents’ house last fall, it seems like every time I’ve run into him since then, he’s managed to say something equally or even more obnoxious. And really, he needs to get over himself. Sure, he’s good looking. But the problem is he’s arrogant and pushy—pushing his way right into my circle of friends. And then there’s my boss, Jack Colby, who seems to want nothing more than to push Jamie and me together.

      Thank goodness for my grandfather—Big Daddy. Now that he’s retired from his church, he’s spending his weekends in Nashville just to get away, so we’ve been having fun hanging out together. I’m starting to get suspicious that the reason he’s gung-ho to join my church doesn’t have anything to do with spending more time with his beloved youngest granddaughter, though. There’s this redheaded lady I keep seeing him talking to . . . and of course Jamie O’Connor is trying to push his way in there, too, because now he’s starting to come to stuff at my church and—

      Well, I’ll get off my soapbox now and get back to helping Kaye finish the book while I try to avoid all contact with Jamie O’Connor. Ugh. Here he comes again. Bye for now!

Fun Friday–Summer 2011 Movie Edition

Friday, May 6, 2011

So, this week, I finally got around to watching The King’s Speech and Tangled, both of which I missed getting to see in the theaters due to my broken ankle over the fall/winter. I’ve already seen a few of the spring releases (The Eagle, The Conspirator and Jane Eyre) and since I’ll be finishing up Turnabout’s Fair Play (TFP) by mid-month (no, really, I will), I’m starting to look forward to taking some time to go to the movies this summer. So here’s a sampling of some of the upcoming movies I’m looking forward to.

Thor (Opens Today)
Why? Because it stars Aussie actor Chris Hemsworth. Who’s Chris Hemsworth? Well, aside from playing Kirk’s father in the 2009 Star Trek reboot, he’s the template for the Aussie doctor in the second book of my historical proposal.

Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides (Opens May 20)
Why? Because it’s Captain Jack Sparrow. And because they’ve gone back to the stand-alone adventure story style of the first movie.

X-Men: First Class (Opens June 3)
Why? Because I’m a fan of the X-Men series in general (the movies, not the comic books). But how will Ruth Anderson and Rachel McMillan ever decide if they’re pulled more toward JAMES McAVOY or MICHAEL FASSBENDER!!!!!

Monte Carlo (Opens July 1)
Why? Because I’m a romance novelist and felt like I should have something chick-flicky on my list.

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2 (Opens July 15)
Why? If you knew me, you wouldn’t have to ask.

Captain America (Opens July 22)
Why? As you can see, I have a thing for movies based on classic comic books. Oh, and there just so happens to be someone in this movie with the initials R.A.

Cowboys and Aliens (Opens July 29)
Why? Let me count the reasons: Daniel Craig, Harrison Ford, Clancy Brown, Keith Carradine, Adam Beach, David O’Hara, cowboys, aliens. . .

The Help (Opens August 12)
Why? Just watch the trailer!

Conan, the Barbarian (Opens August 19)
Why? I fell in love with Jason Momoa as Ronan Dex in Stargate: Atlantis.

Those are the big ones coming up that I want to see. I’m sure there will be more which may draw me out to the theater or make it onto my Netflix list.

Will you go see any of these? Are there any others you’ve heard about that you’re wanting to see this summer (whether in the theater or later on DVD?)

Thursday Thought Provoker

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Whatever Else Blogging Is, It Ought to Begin by Being Personal

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

I’ve been asked several times recently about blogging by people who are at a point in their writing journey at which they’re starting to think about beginning to build name recognition through their online platforms. A few have said that they’ve heard (from whom, I want to know!) that they shouldn’t use the words I, me, or my much, if at all, in their blog posts. Most have been blogging for a while—pretty much about stuff they enjoy: music, knitting, travel, sports, etc. But, they tell me, now that they’re getting serious about pursuing publication, they know they need to stop blogging about that stuff and start blogging about writing related stuff. But they don’t want their blog to be just like everyone else’s blog. So what are they to do?

Well, first let me pull out one of my favorite quotes from You’ve Got Mail:

Whatever else anything is, it ought to begin by being personal.

The best way to make sure you have just another generic writer’s blog is to make sure that you don’t use the words I, me, or my or make it in any way personal.

Most writers believe we must blog about writing, incessantly, before we’re published—that we must document everything we learn about craft, about the industry, about the writing life. We must do writing series. We must quote from the experts. We must host other writers to also talk about writing craft topics. (I don’t know if you’ve noticed the dates on each of the series on my Writing Series Index—the majority were written before I was published.)

And sure, some of us do build audiences that way—of other writers. But are other writers really the ones we’re trying to reach out to? And, besides, how many times do we really need to read an explanation of Showing vs.Telling or Point of View or Dialogue or all the different technical elements we break the craft of writing down into? And once you are published, if you continue to write only about writing, you’re going to actually be limiting your blog’s reach, because readers who aren’t writers might visit once or twice, but they aren’t going to keep coming back.

I don’t know where people have heard not to talk about yourself on your blog, but being open and personal is the best way to get people to come and to keep coming back. One of the most visited and shared posts on my blog, out of 1,200 posts over more than five years is this one:

Thirtysomething and Never Been Kissed? Getouttahere!

And if I’d followed the no-Imemy advice, I would never have written it. But it’s through having written posts like that one that I’ve been able to connect on a deeper level with my readers—and connect with new readers who might not have otherwise ever picked up one of my books. And if that’s not an I-filled post, I don’t know what is.

Your blog can be about whatever you want it to be about. The question to ask yourself is why you’re writing it in the first place. Are you writing it because it’s something you want to do, or are you writing it because it’s something you’ve been led to believe you should do? If you take it on as a task, as a duty, that’s what it’s always going to be. The most important thing your blog should be is a representation of you.

If you want to write about music, write about music. If you want to post gluten-free recipes you’re experimenting with, then go for it. If you want to post poems or song lyrics you’ve written, do it. Is knitting your hobby? Then write about it—and post pictures of your progress with your current project(s).

But, you argue, those topics don’t have anything to do with writing YA Urban Fantasy.

So what? I say. For the most part, when readers visit an author’s blog, it may be because some subject matter in the book interested them—but what they’re really looking for is to get to know the author better, not research that subject matter. And if you think about it, the things that interest you enough for you to blog about them are going to be the things that are going to make their way into your fiction in one form or another anyway.

But if I just write about the topics I enjoy, or tell stories about me that I think might in some way connect with others, I feel self-indulgent and narcissistic.

You feel self-indulgent telling stories and trying to connect with people??? I think you’ve been listening to some very bad advice. Because that’s exactly what you should be doing with your blog. Writing a blog by its very nature is self-indulgent. Putting any words up online and believing anyone is going to read them is an act of extreme narcissism—just like sitting down at a computer and writing a story thinking it’s going to get published someday is. Just like singing at an open-mic night is. Just like writing music is. Just like reaching out and trying to make new friends is. It’s putting my SELF out there, believing that someone else is going to find something of worth, something of value, in me and what I have to share.

So what part of your SELF are you going to put on your blog? What do you want people to know about YOU? What is important to YOU? How do you want to connect with others—what topics do you want to connect with them through? And what do you want to write about? That’s what you need to take into consideration when thinking about writing a blog.

Do you blog? What do you blog about? What else could you blog about that would be more personal—more of a reflection of you and who you are as a person?